Why can’t I just get ahead financially? I just want to get out of debt! I want to get this promotion! I am tired of living paycheck to paycheck. People say money talks, all mine says is “good bye”!
So many people desire abundance, wealth and success. Hence the millions of books on the topic. If everyone wants it and there is a proliferation of material on this topic then why is it so elusive for you? Maybe it is personal. Maybe you just need to work harder? Come on, suck it up! Put on your big girl panties. Or maybe you need to purchase another book on goal setting. Or maybe financial success is just not for you. Seriously, it’s just not for you.
For the ladies think of it like that super cute outfit you see on the mannequin at your favorite store. So you decide to try it on then looking in the mirror you groan and say, “dang, it looks so cute on the mannequin and clerk, IT’S JUST NOT FOR ME” Maybe that’s how you feel with money. You get another book on budgeting, or creating wealth and abundance, you then get excited for about a week. and then nothing happens, so you resign yourself to the fact that it’s good for those other people, but it’s not for me. No way.
Guys your going to have to think of your own example.
Either way the good news is money, success and abundance is available, and ready for action for everyone!
The fact is that It’s not about you. I wouldn’t lie to make you feel good. I am more of the direct type of person. Honestly it’s not about you. It’s about the “Otheryou”. What I mean is that it’s all about and I mean ALL about your unconscious beliefs. The YOU that you don’t communicate with. Seriously, how many people have had this conversation, “hey subconscious, I know that you influence 95% of my behaviours (scientifically proven) so whats the low down here. WHy don’t I get ahead?”
Because if you aren’t achieving financial success with effort and all the material available on “how to” then this is the conversation you need to have.
Don’t believe me?
Just follow me and go through some of the limiting beliefs and questions below.
Please understand There are numerous aspects to financial abundance, including having an abundant mindset. But this session we are addressing money beliefs.
One aspect that I am exploring here is to look at your relationship with money. But, let’s keep it platonic for now ☺ Yes it has to do with a relationship and energy around anything that has to do with money coming in, money going out, how and why you make these decisions….
You need to explore your beliefs, symptom or emotions about money.
WHAT TO DO – your freedomwork: Say each of the phrases out loud and rate it’s truth or even better yet come up with your own phrases. Pick your number and tap until it gets down to a four. At that point do a couple positive rounds: I wonder if this belief isn’t true, I wonder if it could be different. I am beginning to open to the idea that these aren’t my truths anymore.
If anything comes up like, “no I am always going to be poor” tap on that and why you believe this statement. Keep tapping the truth till it doesn’t have a charge. Then try the positive round again.
For example some people say, .
- Oh money is available for everybody else but it’s not available to me.
- I did too many dumb things with money In the past. I’ll blow it again
- I don’t know how to hold on to money.
- It burns a hole in my pocket.
Think about it. How are going to get ahead if your belief is that you don’t know how to hold on to money. Basically, your body (unconscious) is listening to you and making sure you are congruent with this hidden belief.
Freedom Work: Start with 5 minutes a day. That’s all. Pick a phrase or too and work it till you get your numbers down! This ain’t years of therapy. It’s a commitment of 35 minutes in a week. If you don’t make this little time then there is a reason that is totally unconscious to you. In that case I would recommend that you seek out an amazing coach who uses tapping to unlock and unleash you!!!
The way to get ahead is to start now. —William Feather
I can help you☺